How to Respond to Seasons of Waiting
- Cindy
- Dec 21
- 3 min read
I don’t know about you, but I personally struggle with waiting for plans or circumstances to unfold. As I quickly approach a new decade of life, I’m learning that God’s plan for us often unfolds in painfully slow ways. In the quiet and stillness, I sometimes doubt whether I’m choosing the right thing. At times, I even feel guilty when He brings me into a season of rest — mostly because I feel uncomfortable in the “not doing.”
In my experience, the Lord often brings me into complete silence to remind me of who He is and that I am not the one in control of the master plan for my life. The stillness can feel so uncomfortable that I try to fill it with something — anything — yet nothing seems to interest me. Motivation fades, and empty silence settles in. That’s usually when I realize a lesson is being taught.
What feels like a rut is often just a pause. Whether short or long, the pause reminds me of all the ways God has provided for me throughout my life. My trust is restored when I reflect on His blessings and the truth that He has never left me in any season of struggle. I’m reminded of the good memories and the people who have poured love and affirmation into my life — often the ones I least expected.
Figuring out my next right step has become a daily practice. Progress can feel painfully slow at times, and at other times surprises abound. All I can do is trust His purpose for my life, knowing that sometimes what I believe is the “right” next step may actually be a mistake I need to learn from. If I refuse to move because I fear being wrong, I hold myself captive in my own fears.
There is no magic formula for decision‑making and no trick to seeing into the future. All we can do is discern, pray for His wisdom and guidance, and trust that every outcome — whether we like it or not — is part of the way life is meant to unfold.
Are you in a space of stillness, sudden change, or slow transition? I’ve walked through many of these seasons and often wished I had someone who understood the path I was on. My goal now is to be that person for someone else — a listening ear, a gentle guide, someone who speaks truth in love and supports you through transitions or goals you feel stuck in achieving.
A Gentle Recap: What to Remember in Seasons of Waiting
If you’re navigating a similar season, here are a few simple truths to hold onto:
Recognize the pause: What feels like a rut may actually be God inviting you into rest, reflection, or redirection.
Resist the urge to fill the silence: Instead of distracting yourself, allow the stillness to teach you something.
Reflect on past provision: Remembering how God has shown up before strengthens trust in the present.
Take one small step: Don’t let fear of being wrong keep you stuck. Movement creates clarity.
Practice daily discernment: Pray, reflect, and trust that you don’t need to see the whole path to take the next right step.
Seek support when needed: You don’t have to navigate transitions alone — guidance and companionship can make the journey lighter.
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With grace and gratitude,
Cindy