Comparing the Old and New Me

A Testimony of God’s Quiet, Steady Transformation

About five years ago, I turned toward a way of living that has completely changed my life. Some call it a “life skills management program,” which makes me smile — but honestly, that’s exactly what it has been for me.

Now, approaching 60, I can finally see what true maturity looks like. I’m learning to respond to life from a calm, grounded, peace‑filled place rather than from a pace of reactionary panic, control, or quick decisions. I’m learning to trust more, pause more, and let God lead instead of letting fear take the wheel.

One of the biggest shifts has been this: I’m learning to make decisions that honor unity and the good of everyone involved — not just what keeps me comfortable.

Looking back, I can see how selfishly I lived at times. But I also know this: we all have a selfish nature by default, and God faithfully works to sanctify us throughout our lives. He doesn’t shame us for where we’ve been; He gently grows us into who we’re becoming.

I’ve spent a lot of time untangling the survival skills I learned in childhood — skills that once protected me, but later became patterns that no longer served me. Today, I can see those same traits as beautiful parts of who I am. When I don’t overdo them, I thrive… and the people around me are positively impacted too.

This journey hasn’t been quick or easy, but it has been holy. And I’m grateful for every step. I also know that, occasionally, I can slip back into old attitudes and behaviors — I’m human, so that happens. The difference today is that I notice it sooner. I can pause, correct my course, make an apology if one is needed, and then let it go. I don’t have to spiral or stay stuck. I can restart my day at any time and move forward with grace.

This my wish for you today:

Let Go and Enjoy the Youness of You.   There’s a quiet freedom that comes when we stop striving and start embracing the person God has been shaping all along. You don’t have to hustle to earn worth. You don’t have to match anyone else’s pace. You get to show up as you — grounded, present, and full of grace.

With grace and gratitude,

Cindy

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